Have you ever felt alone and empty after a date with a new girl/guy? Or do you ever feel guilty because despite the presence of a new person in your life, you still long for that same person who broke off with you for reasons you never understood?
Below are five tips that you may find useful to rekindle an old relationship and start anew:
First and foremost, a person who has recently broken off with somebody needs time and space to be able to think and weigh things. Finding out the reasons why the relationship came to an end is a good start if you believe that it is worth giving a second chance. Formulating positive actions against identified flaws can be beneficial to both parties. For example, your guy is late for a date. Instead of nagging as you got used to, why not this time, ask for an explanation and be open-minded to reasons. Insecurity plays a vital role why most relationships end down the drain. By acting mature, you are showing that you are able to handle situations as such, instead of acting like a three year-old on the verge of having tantrums.
Second, the end of a romantic relationship does not mean the end of your world. Make use of this time to recharge from the emotional burden that you underwent. Instead of sulking, consider doing other activities to keep you busy. Try pampering yourself at a spa or enjoy a weekend vacation with your best buddies. Remember, if you want to get your ex back, you have to be whole and renewed. Nobody would want a person who acts crazy or would do silly things just to gain attention. A person who values self-respect is capable to give back respect. This trait is likely to have been lost during the relationship and made you doubt each other.
Another tip is to remember and list down the things you appreciate and enjoy doing with your partner. The time he helped you do the dishes at your parents house, the basketball game you watched even if your ex’ team did not win. These things, though very simple, formed part of your day to day existence as partners. By focusing on these things, you acknowledge the good side of your ex and start mending the heartaches both of you experienced during the break up. The important part here is that, you are willing to let go of the sad moments and concentrate on the goodness that each has to offer.
Next, when finally, the two of you are back in each other’s arms, try doing new things like engaging in a sport that both of you are interested in. Starting fresh and avoiding the pointed causes of your separation indicates that both of you have forgiven each other, and are now willing to compromise to save the relationship. Understanding the needs of both sides can be an effective tool to keep the relationship in harmony. Never commit the same mistakes again. The reason you wanted to have your ex back is because, with him/her, you are happy, and that’s what matter the most.
And lastly, focus on strengthening the communication inside the relationship. Developing an effective mode of communication can lead both of you to create a shared sense of destiny. We may never know what lies ahead, but a sound relationship can definitely stand the test of time because you have each other. The main thing is to focus on building an Awesome Relationship.
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