You got dumped. It’s alright, that is, if you still have doubts that she is your soul mate. You are merely staying in the relationship because you already got used to having your girlfriend around. But what if she is the “one” for you? What should you do to get her back? Follow the following steps, before its too late...
Girls are fickle minded and impulsive beings. They change their minds as fast as they change clothes. If you are certain that your ex girlfriend truly loves you, this can be your best weapon to getting her back again. But this time, you call the shots, not her.
Whenever there is a chance of seeing her or being around her in a gathering, exude your best attitude and act as if you overcome the episode of the break up. Just be casual, however, make sure she notices the changes in you. When there are instances that you are to converse with each other, subtly mention the good times that you once shared. Let her realize that ending the relationship was not a clever thing to do and you can still fix whatever crisis you had.
But in the mean time, while separated with each other, you should also assess yourself on your shortcomings in the relationship. Maybe you are too busy lately and no longer spend enough time with her, or you sometimes forget special occasions like anniversaries. If you really want your ex girlfriend back in your arms, be sure to acknowledge your failures as a partner and bring back the man who she fell in love with. Better yet, improve who you are.
You can also invite her to a friendly day or night out. Assure her that it will be a non-committal event. Be sure to have other friends go with you so that you ex will be at ease. Of course, as you socialize with other people in the group, mention some of the stuff that you are up to at the moment. Tell everyone the positive things that keep you busy recently, and make sure to have eye contact with your girl once in a while. By updating her about what is happening with you, she will get the idea that you have handled the break up very well.
During times that you get to be around her, intrigue her. Make yourself look more “desirable” in her eyes. You knew her well to know what she likes. Gets a new haircut, shave or wear the perfume that she finds you sexy wearing. Do extra effort to make the normal little things become extra ordinary when she sees you. It’s like hypnotizing her without being obvious. If your girl is not stone hearted, she will easily feel the message that you are trying to send her. Remember, your goal is to make her come back... on her own.
Girls like to have men who are sure of themselves and can very much handle even the most difficult situations. They love to be pampered and feel that they are important. And if you really love your ex despite the pain she gave you when she dumped you, fight for her and get her back without making yourself looking desperate.
That is how you get your ex back. And continue to build an awesome relationship.
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